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ERT: Lead By Example

ERT: Lead By Example

This reproducible really applies to all who seek to “Engage & Run Together.” We owe it to our brothers and sisters to follow Jesus, to live, care, and serve in a way that helps them follow Him, to grow in grace, to be conformed to the image of His Son. Whether we think of ourselves as newcomers, steady participants, emerging or established “leaders”, our example affects those around us.

Live as an example. Sincerely do what you’re asking others to do, starting with an attitude of continuous repentance, a continuous emphasis on living in the presence of God. And actively living the Reproducibles: Inductive Bible Study, Conversational Prayer, Scripture Memorization, personal and professional Excellence, Grow Together, Pray & Plan (P&P).

The Fort Benning statue says it clearly:

Let’s go, get moving, do what I’m doing, Follow Me!

The spiritual warrior-leader is strong, as expected of a military leader,

  • not threatened or offended by different points of view, and able to bring a discussion back to “the main things”, for they “are the plain things”.
  • able to admit that some questions are “above my pay grade”, sometimes to be left there, sometimes to be taken up with a chaplain or another leader in his/her “abundance of counselors” (Pr 24:5-6).
  • gaining strength by absorbing and acting on The Word, able to receive wise guidance, new ideas, Spirit-led reproof, Godly counsel.

The leader knows there are hungry lions prowling about, giants in the land, and that

“We should by all means go up and take possession of it, for we will surely overcome it.” (Numbers 13:30)

For us, to “take possession” is to fully follow the Lord in a way that others recognize as real, strong in Him, pressing toward the mark so that we converge individually and as a community on what He intends for us. As we become living examples of what Paul taught Timothy in the presence of many witnesses, we will be able to teach others also to Engage & Run Together.

Help the group grow together.  Make sure the pleasure of warm fellowship doesn’t distract us from concern for the lost or individual closeness to God. Ask the Holy Spirit, and P&P to find the balance. Stick to the things make for peace and the building up of one another (Romans 14:19). Remember Jesus, how He reacted, how He related. Keep the focus on Him.

Review, discuss, and use the seven reproducibles and the foundational Bible verses. Ask the Holy Spirit to guide to the right understanding and application of any Bible passage being discussed. Use marginal references to find clarification from related passages. Explore together; avoid imposing personal or denominational conclusions. Begin the Bible study sequence with the 3 sets of memory verses found at the link below. Newcomers can go through them “offline” or when the group does them each year (or as locally needed). The idea is to have used everything you’ll need to reproduce this approach at your next duty station.

Pray and Plan to select follow-on studies, plan outreaches & activities:

  • Some may be unfamiliar with basic Christian standards of conduct; others may have learned and rejected them earlier. The P&P could choose a study in Ephesians, Colossians, Timothy or Peter as a way for them to discover the need and rationale for lifestyle changes.
  • Prioritize low-overhead activities … chapel services when available & small group gatherings in living or work areas; enjoy the occasional “big deal” activities without becoming dependent on them.
  • Think of “fellowship” as purposeful activity together: study, prayer, planning, serving … “team building” by engaging together! Try a before-duty-hours Bible Study, a trip to the pistol range for Chapel people, P&P and run a service project! The spiritual nature of the team is caught from the unforced way we offer all aspects of life, including work & relationships, to Jesus!

In any context we soon learn “the rules” we have to live with, and eventually find that most of them actually make sense for that context. Given the realities of military culture, it takes time for some to feel free to interact or take initiative in a small-group context. They hesitate out of respect for people of higher rank or deeper experience. Help them know they really are welcome to interact, to question, to explore and discuss and still honor the old saying that “while the senior never remembers his/her rank, the junior never forgets.”

We Engage & Run Together to help people move:

  • from external motivation (food, great worship music, good fellowship, etc)
  • to internal motivation (pleasing Christ, serving Him and each other, concern for the lost),
  • from consumer to contributor, from passive to proactive,
  • from limiting faith to a place or centrally planned activities to engaging with others.

Invite, include, & empower emerging leaders. Make ways for emerging leaders to trust God for empowerment to do “greater things”, to grow from speaking up during a Bible study, to co-leading a session, joining a “leaders meeting”, walking a newcomer through the reproducibles and verse sets, starting up another group, … 

 “Truly, truly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do, he will do also; and greater works than these he will do; because I go to the Father.” (John14:13, NASB)

Work with Chaplains, Pastors, and other Christian ministries to build the Kingdom of God. There’s no place for power struggles and competition; they are destructive.

For wherever there is jealousy and selfish ambition, there you will find disorder and evil of every kind. (James 3:16, NLT)

Wrap-up

…let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus,… (Hebrews 12:1-2 NKJV, emphasis added)

This is the fourth article in the “Engage & Run Together (E&RT)” series. For the previous articles, briefing, & further resources see http://ow.ly/qCfk30e12lm Let’s live, and invite others to join us in living a self-reproducing integrated life of faith.


CMF Operating Principle Number One

CMF Operating Principle Number One

Encourage and help individual members to establish and maintain personal Bible study, prayer and obedience to God in every area of their lives.

Encourage—To give courage to; to give or increase confidence of success; to inspire with courage, spirit, or strength of mind; to embolden; to animate; to incite; to inspirit. (Noah Webster)

Help—To aid; to assist; to lend strength or means towards effecting a purpose; as, to help a man in his work; to help the memory or the understanding. (Noah Webster)

Obedience—is compliance with a command, prohibition or known law and rule of duty prescribed; the performance of what is required or enjoined by authority, or the abstaining from what is prohibited, in compliance with the command or prohibition. To constitute obedience, the act or forbearance to act must be in submission to authority; the command must be known to the person, and his compliance must be in consequence of it, or it is not obedience. Obedience is not synonymous with obsequiousness; the latter often implying meanness or servility, and obedience being merely a proper submission to authority. That which duty requires implies dignity of conduct rather than servility. Obedience may be voluntary or involuntary. Voluntary obedience alone can be acceptable to God. (Noah Webster)

Servile—Such as pertains to a servant or slave; slavish; mean; such as proceeds from dependence; as servile fear; servile obedience. Held in subjection; dependent. Cringing; fawning; meanly submissive; as servile flattery. (Noah Webster)

“And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds.” Hebrews 10:24 NIV

The aforementioned verse from Hebrews may sound a bit draconian if one is not familiar with horses. The spur is but one of many of the rider’s “aids” that allow for precision guidance of the trusty steed. In short, the rider’s aids represent the non-verbal language used to let the horse know what is required of it. It would follow that the words spur, provoke, encourage, stimulate, help or motivate, used to translate the Greek word paroxusmos (G3948) means significantly more than mere “incitement (to good).” It also presupposes a need to be spurred! When used together, the rider’s aids can guide the mount through all manner of intricate maneuvers necessary to provide utility. The choice of aids then must fit the current circumstance. The current circumstance for believers in the military is war and lengthy repeated family separations.

The Apostle Paul has given us a few words for when life really SUX, a Navy aviation weather term (invented for the Simoom—A strong, hot, sand-laden wind of the Sahara and Arabian deserts) that indicates an indefinite ceiling, visibility fully obscured in blowing sand; not a good day to fly):

“But this precious treasure─this light and power that now shine within us─is held in perishable containers, that is, in our weak bodies. So everyone can see that our glorious power is from God and is not our own. We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed and broken. We are perplexed, but we don't give up and quit. We are hunted down, but God never abandons us. We get knocked down, but we get up again and keep going. Through suffering, these bodies of ours constantly share in the death of Jesus so that the life of Jesus may also be seen in our bodies” (2 Corinthians 4:7-10 New Living Translation).

The problem for us as believers is to discover whether it is suffering for the faith OR suffering in the faith that is occurring. The answer can be found in our obedience (or lack thereof). If suffering in the faith, then no amount of perseverance, tenacity, or intestinal fortitude will keep you in the battle. But that is exactly where our fallen nature will lead us because we are above all arrogant! The other extreme is to wait for a holy lightening bolt to strike that will change the attitude of our heart and allow us walk along in life surrounded by clouds of heavenly bliss (Star Trek XIV—Life in the tail of a comet).

John Wesley, in “A Plain Account of Christian Perfection”, says that we ought not to wait “in careless indifference, or indolent inactivity; but in vigorous, universal obedience, in a zealous keeping of all the commandments, in watchfulness and painfulness, in denying ourselves, and taking up our cross daily; as well as in earnest prayer and fasting, and a close attendance on all the ordinances of God. And if any man dream of attaining it any other way (yea, or of keeping it when it is attained, when he has received it even in the largest measure), he deceiveth his own soul. It is true, we receive it by simple faith; but God does not, will not, give that faith unless we seek it with all diligence, in the way which He hath ordained.”

When horses have an itch on their neck, they will find another horse and nibble and bite the other horse’s neck exactly where they themselves itch. They are saying, “scratch me in the same spot.” In addition to the many free resources, Bible studies, books, newsletters, etc., that CMF provides to our membership, we also have a small cadre of experienced Christians serving fulltime in key locations. Vic Primeaux serves the many bases in the northwest; Dick and Sue Price serving with the Marine Corps at Camp Lejeune and MCAS New River; Steve Blythe at Camp Pendleton; Udell and Janet Meyers at Naval Air Station Pensacola; Carol Simning at the many Veterans facilities in Montana; Greg Holm serves in the northeast as well as facilitating our Prayer and Encouragement ministry and Electronic Prayer Ministry; Pastor George Band serves South Florida; and Dan Baerg and I at the Home Office are available. This is an opportunity for you to tell other believers that you “itch.” This is important because when you are discouraged, it affects the body. When you are inspired it provides lift to every wing. Don’t miss out! Instead, reach out!



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